10 Best sex toys for couples to have extra fun in the bedroom

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Sex toys for couples are the best things ever!

Not only do they spice up your sex life and keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom, but I find they have a positive affect on my relationships as a whole. Using adult toys opens up communication and a healthy vulnerability, which filters into other areas of the relationship making it stronger and more loving.

If you are a sex toy novice, you might like to have a little play on your own first or make it a journey of discovery together. Start slow with some sexy lingerie or role play costumes then bring in the toys for the foreplay ride of your life.

There are lots of great adult toy shops online and I’ve always found choosing sex toys with my partner easy and fun. Most stores have categories especially for couples to browse together and start sharing your fantasies before you get the toys.

You can even get sex toys for couples to use apart which are perfect if you are in a long-distance relationship or in that stage when you can’t keep your hands off each other.

Here are my favourite sex toys for couples.

10 Best sex toys for couples for extra fun in the bedroom

1. Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

When it comes to couple sex toys, the Lush 3 is made for long-distance fun. My friend and her partner absolutely love this wearable vibrator for both G-spot and clitoral stimulation. She says it’s perfect whether you’re in the privacy of your bedroom or in public, as it’s whisper-quiet and very discreet. She also raves about the battery life (up to 5 hours on one charge) and the fact that you can hook up the vibe to your phone and control Lush from a distance.


I found this on: Lovehoney

2. Boudoir Bondage Bag by Brigitta

In my opinion, no fun-loving couple should be without a bondage kit. It’s one of the easiest ways to spice up sexy time with your partner! I’ve tried a bunch of sets, but I particularly like this one from adultshop.com that’s perfect for beginners. With seven different bondage toys (blindfold, cuffs, bed restraint, paddle, and flogger) in beautiful red jacquard print, it has everything you need to take kinky bedroom fun to the next level. And I love that you can just roll up the toys when you’re done.


I found this on: adultshop


It can be difficult to find a vibrator that both you and your partner can enjoy. That’s why I like the Nexus G-Play vibe, a tiny but powerful and versatile “unisex massager” that’s great for vaginal, clitoral, or anal stimulation. This is perfect for couples who travel together, as the 3.6″ toy packs up nicely in a small bag and is also discreet enough if you’re in the mood for frisky fun in public. You wouldn’t think to look at it that it has six powerful vibration modes.

Nexus G-Play Unisex Vibrator | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Adult Toy Megastore


I love date nights. They’re a nice break from routine and go a long way to making my relationship stronger. But I must admit they can get boring and predictable sometimes. That’s why I got this hilarious adult board game called Sexopoly. It’s like a naughty version of Monopoly that you can play as a couple or with friends (up to 8 players). Prepare for embarrassing questions and spill your sexy secrets while building your “adult business empire.” We had so much fun playing this with friends the first time that we all decided to make it a once-a-month event.

Sex Toy Couples | Sexopoly Board Game | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Femplay

5. Whipped cream dispenser (funny sex gifts for couples)

Whipped cream! Who doesn’t love it? For beginners, I recommend this whipped cream dispenser from the Naughty Store that’s great for bedroom fun. The rubberised container is easy to grip and holds enough whipped cream (1 pint or about 15 to 20 ) to last you the whole night. If there’s anything left over, just pop the dispenser in the fridge and it will stay fresh for up to 14 days.

Whipped Cream Dispenser | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Naughty Store

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6. Lovehoney Wild Weekend Mega Couple’s Sex Toy Kit

What is the one thing would you bring to a weekend getaway with your partner? Hands down, I would pick this aptly named sex toy kit from Lovehoney that has 11 (count ’em) toys for him and her: rabbit and g-spot vibrators, cock rings, jiggle balls, anal beads, butt plug, and masturbator. This set literally has everything you need and can ask for to take your erotic weekend to the next level. We definitely had a lot of fun playing and experimenting with the toys. Great value for money!

Sex Toy Couples | Lovehoney Wild Weekend Sex Toy Kit | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Lovehoney

7. Adam and Eve Metal Butt Plug Set

Anal stimulation can be a daunting prospect for couples who are not that adventurous in the bedroom to begin with. I can understand the anxiety and nervousness if you’re a first-timer! But if you’re determined to try it out, I highly recommend getting a couple toy that’s designed for beginners. This best-selling set of butt plugs from Wild Secrets comes with 3 different-sized plugs (small, medium, and large) so you and your lover have the freedom to experiment and explore. The ruby red base is just brilliant (and cute) and the plugs are also great for temperature play.

Adam and Eve Butt Plug Set | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Wild Secrets

8. Magic touch fun paddle

While I haven’t personally tried the Magic Touch Paddle, my friend only has great things to say about it. She says it’s a good toy for beginners and for curious couples who want to ease into BDSM play. The key is to practice, practice, practice, she says. She recommends trying the paddle on a pillow and on each other so you can feel the pressure and find out how hard you are willing to go. And come up with a “safe word” so that your partner knows when to stop!

Sex Toy Couples | Magic Touch Fun Paddle | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Club X

9. Couples choice vibrator

When you’ve tried every couple toy out there, it’s always exciting when something new and different comes along. This vibrator from Femplay is called “Couples Choice” for a reason. And it’s as unique as it looks. I had to read the instructions first because I was unsure how to use it, haha. The vibrator head is worn by the woman (vaginal or anal), and the other shaft is for your partner’s penis to slide into. It can also be used for double entry if you’re into that. Versatile and double the fun!

Couples Choice Vibrator | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Femplay


Strap-ons are something I’ve been curious about for the longest time, but too chicken to try. It looks super intimidating in my opinion, haha. This Electro Strap On is definitely for the bold and daring couple, whether beginner or experienced. The dildo is made from soft silicone and can be used with or without plugging in the electric stimulation controls. I suggest trying it out sans electro wires at first, and then using the lowest setting so you and your man can see how it feels like before turning up the dial.

Sex Toy Couples | Fuse Strap On Electro Stim Harness Dildo | Beanstalk Single Mums

I found this on: Adult Toy Megastore

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Sally Love is a pseudo single mum author who has been writing about single motherhood, separation and divorce for 8+ years. She has been a single mother for 10+ years and has two daughters, one of whom she co-parents and the other she solo parents. Sally has experienced all aspects of single motherhood from legal, financial, parenting, dating, travel as a single parent, re-partnering and re-building a career. She is an integral part of the Beanstalk community chatting and helping single mothers across the globe, as well as sharing her expertise, experiences and genuine reviews with major national newspapers and appearing on nation-wide television shows.

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