If you feel that there’s something you can’t quite work out that’s holding you back, then I think you should listen to your gut. However if it’s the age gap, and nothing else, then I don’t see a problem. Honestly, if you feel you’re compatible in every way then age doesn’t make a difference. That’s how I’ve always seen in anyway.

I, personally fell head over heels for an older guy (he was 45 I was 31) – I had zero problem with the age gap, but I felt that something was holding me back, something wasn’t quite right. I was pretty smitten (he ticked all the boxes is a massive way, even all the boxes that I didn’t expect to be ticked!) – well I didn’t listen to my gut and I went on to have kids with him. Turns out my gut was right, worst thing that ever happened to me, a very abusive relationship, but I was in deep before I realised (it was a calculated, gradual shift). I’m out now, but having kids with the guy I’m not really out if u know what I mean.

Now I’ve only shared MY story with you because I can’t tell in your post whether you have a gut feeling, or if it’s just the age. If it’s a gut feeling, then look out for red flags. If it’s just the age I reckon give it a go if you want to – even if it turns out not to be forever you’ll likely have a rockin time with great sex!