Are you solo parenting with a son? You might think, "Isn't this something his dad should be handling?" Or "How do I teach my son to shave?!"
Don’t panic, as we’ve got you covered. It can’t be that different to shaving your legs, right? Wrong!
Whether it’s his first shave or just another step in his grooming routine, you can be there to guide him through it. Just follow our easy-peasy steps below.
When should boys start shaving? Hello, puberty.
It might be time to give your son shaving lessons when they hit puberty or the preteen years. Some start to shave as early as 12 or even younger. During this time, your son might also start showing interest in shaving, so be sure to answer his questions patiently. When you see long hairs pop up on his upper lip or chin, or he gets a peachy fuzz on his face, you can go ahead and teach him to shave. Even if your son wants to grow a beard, tell him that it’s important to shave around the edges to get a clean look.
What products are best for first-time users, razor or shaver?
When your son learns to shave, choosing the right tool plays a huge role in making his first experience smooth and comfortable. For beginners, it’s often better to start with a razor rather than an electric shaver. A quality razor, like the Gillette Mach3, provides more control and a closer shave, helping him to get the hang of the process. The Gillette’s flexible blades adapt to the contours of his face, reducing the risk of nicks and irritation, which is great for beginners. As your son becomes more confident, he might choose to experiment with different options, but starting with a reliable razor will help him learn the basics of shaving with ease.
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The best razor is one that is safe and works well on his face. Take him to the store and help him pick out what he wants. Just keep in mind that most young men use a manual razor with replacement cartridges or an electric razor when they first start shaving.
On the other hand, electric shavers are convenient and easy to use but may not offer the same level of precision. However, some like Braun Series 3 Clean & Close can be used wet or dry and are a great option when considering long-term costs.
An electric razor can be plugged in or have rechargeable batteries. Some brands supply gels or creams to protect the skin, taking the guesswork out of which to choose. Help him pick out a model with a flexible head that follows the contours of his face. It may not shave as close as a disposable razor…this is perfect if your son has acne, as the razor will reduce irritation.
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Whether you get an electric or a manual razor, a smooth shave depends on how sharp the blades are. Make sure to change the blades or get a new disposable razor regularly. A dull blade or old razor can irritate the skin and cause rashes. He is also more likely to cut his skin if using a dull blade. Tell him to store the razor in a dry area to prevent bacteria and mould growth.
How to teach your son to shave for the first time
Preparing the face to shave
The best time to teach your son how to shave is after his bath or shower. The steam keeps the skin soft and hydrated, so it’s easier to remove hair. If he hasn’t had a bath, teach him to wash his face with soap and warm water and leave it for up to three minutes to open up the pores and soften hair follicles.
How to shave
- Gather your materials together: razor, shaving cream or gel, aftershave lotion, basin, and towel.
- Teach him to apply the cream or gel on the face and lather up.
- Wet the razor in warm water and shave along the grain of the hair or toward the hair growth. This reduces friction and prevents bumps and rashes. Many guys have facial hair that grows down, so shaving down removes most of the hair. To get rid of the remaining hair, shave gently against the grain or away from the direction of the hair growth.
- Remind him that it's easier if he rinses the razor after every few strokes. Be patient and don’t rush when you teach your little man to shave. Tell him to go slowly and gently over his face and let the blade do the work. Use short, light strokes and don’t press down hard. It’s better to shave over an area twice gently than apply too much pressure and cut the skin.
- Finally, teach him to rinse his face with cold water and dry with a towel. Cold water closes up the pores and shrinks the blood vessels to reduce inflammation.
- It will help for him to watch a video first so he understands your instructions.
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Aftercare post-shaving
Young skin can be very sensitive, so post-shave care is important. Choose an aftershave or moisturiser that is free of alcohol and strong scents. Get a soothing shave balm that is made for sensitive skin or acne prone skin.
If he’s heading out, don’t forget to tell him to apply sunscreen to protect his freshly shaved skin.
What to do if he cuts himself?
It’s normal for adolescent boys to nick their face and skin a few times when they first start shaving. Use an antiseptic pencil on nicks and cuts to stop bleeding immediately. Then apply soothing aftershave, moisturiser or healing balm to the skin.
If he’s using the right technique and still keeps getting nicks and razor burns, he might need to switch razors. Try a single or two-blade razor that doesn’t shave as close to the skin.
How often should your son shave?
Young men usually shave once every few weeks, a few times a week or once every 3 to 4 days. The actual frequency depends on how fast the hair grows and how dark or thick it is. When he is older, your son will need to shave more often. My widowed aunt said her son (my cousin, Leo) did not know exactly when to shave at first, so she made sure to check from time to time to see that he was well-groomed.
Summary: How to teach first-time shavers
Teaching your son how to shave can feel both overwhelming and bittersweet. I know it’s not easy to face these milestones alone, but remember, you’ve been there for him through so much already. This is just another step in your incredible journey together. It’s okay if you’re feeling a little uncertain. You don’t need to be an expert. What matters most is that you’re there and willing to help him with this new chapter.
Be patient with him, as shaving can take time to get used to. You can watch a few videos together, or you can ask a trusted male friend or family member to share their tips. But even if it’s just the two of you figuring it out, that’s enough. Your son will remember that you were there, guiding him with love and patience. You’ve always been his rock. This is just another moment where your love and support will make all the difference. So take a deep breath and know that you’re doing an amazing job.
