10 Indulgent sex toys to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day

Sex toys Valentine's Day | Beanstalk Mums

Who said Valentine’s Day was for couples only? Us single women can have just as much fun … independently.

Valentine’s Day is all about luuurve. And there is nothing more important than loving YOURSELF in every way.

For that reason, I’ve scoured the best online adult shops and found some gorgeous sex toys to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day.

Go on ladies, have some fun.


1. We-Vibe Jive App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

Spoil yourself this Valentine’s Day with a sensual vibrating egg. The Love Egg features eight patterns of waves and pulses and 12 levels of intensity that you can easily adjust with a remote control (works from eight feet away). I used to love the Desire model until I discover this We-Vibe. Removal and insertion is super easy with the attached cord. Great for solo stimulation or with a partner!

We-Vibe Jive Love Egg Vibrator

Stockist: LoveHoney

2.Micro Butterfly 7 Function Vibrator

Is there anything cuter than this butterfly vibrator? But don’t let the shape fool you … it’s just as good or even better than a regular vibe. With 7 vibration intensities powered by batteries, you’ll enjoy hours of sexy me time, un-thethered.

Sex Toys Valentines Day | Micro Butterfly Vibrator | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: Club X

3. Rose clitoral suction vibe

This romantic style sex toy is the absolute perfect gift for Valentine’s. It’s actually one of my favourite clitoral toys because of the hand suction pump which is less aggressive than battery operated and easier to control.

Rose clitoral suction vibe | Sex toys Valentine's Day

Stockist: Femplay


4. Lelo Ora 3

Don’t let being single keep you from the pleasure of oral sex … get the Lelo Ora 3 now. It stimulates the clitoris just like a real tongue would with swirls and intense pulses (12 vibration patterns and different speeds). Guaranteed to send you to cloud 9 and beyond.

Sex Toys Valentines Day | Lelo Ora 3 | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: Adult Shop

5. Fifty Shades of Grey Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls

Are you a fan of Kegel exercises? Then you’re going to love these 50 Shades of Grey silver pleasure balls (approved by the author). The combined weight of 221g is designed for people who have used Kegel exercisers before and want a more intense and pleasurable challenge. It’s a vaginal workout and and amazing G-spot stimulator in one.

Silver Pleasure Balls | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: LoveHoney

6. Chakra Luxury Tongue Vibrator

Don’t you just love how this looks? The Chakra Luxury is the perfect alternative to the traditional vibrator if you’re looking for, um, more local stimulation. The soft jelly material acts like a tongue that tickles the clit with multi-speed vibrations. Use with your fave lube for the best oral of your life.

Sex Toys Valentines Day | Chakra Luxury Tongue Vibrator | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: Adult Toy Megastore

Indulgent sex toys to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day

7. Allure Dual Rabbit Vibrator

A list of sex toys is not complete without a Rabbit. This is a great starter model as the vibration is gentle and the material is super soft. I consider it the perfect shower toy!

Allure dual rabbit | Sex toys Valentines

Stockist: Club X


The Ovo proves that great things come in small, sleek packages. It’s quiet, waterproof and comes with seven speed and vibration patterns for both internal and external stimulation. The perfect solo toy that you will use again and again.

Sex Toys Valentines Day | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: Adult Toy Megastore

9. Panthra Shaka Wand Vibrator

A leopard print vibe that unleashes your inner animal? Sign us up! This one not only looks wild but also delivers the Os with 3 modes and 5 speeds. We love the compact size (only 310g) and easy to use controls. It can also be operated with one hand…perfect for travelling or multitasking.

Panthra Shaka Wand Vibrator | Beanstalk Single Mums

Stockist: Femplay

10. Pipedream Remote-Controlled Vibrating Crotchless Panty

Last on our list of indulgent sex toys to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day is the ultimate erotic gift. A naughty crotchless panty with a built-in vibe that makes you look and feel amazing. Now that’s value for money. Comes with a wireless remote so you can have fun alone or with a partner.

Sex Toys Valentines Day | Pipedream Remote Controlled Vibrating Crotchless Panty | Beanstalk Mums

Stockist: Wild Secrets

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Sally Love is a pseudo single mum author who has been writing about single motherhood, separation and divorce for 8+ years. She has been a single mother for 10+ years and has two daughters, one of whom she co-parents and the other she solo parents. Sally has experienced all aspects of single motherhood from legal, financial, parenting, dating, travel as a single parent, re-partnering and re-building a career. She is an integral part of the Beanstalk community chatting and helping single mothers across the globe, as well as sharing her expertise, experiences and genuine reviews with major national newspapers and appearing on nation-wide television shows.

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