Shared parenting

Embark on a journey of effective co-parenting or parallel parenting. We share expert tips, strategies and resources, empowering single mothers to navigate the challenges and triumphs of shared parenting with confidence and resilience.

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Shared parenting

Parenting 101: Complementary Co-parenting and why I love it

I am prepared to admit that when I became a parent, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. Then, to have to change gears and become a co-parent … well, let’s just say the verb ‘to fumble’ was...

Shared parenting

What is a parenting plan and what should I include?

Making parenting arrangements for our children after separation can be challenging. We have to consider the various options available and adjust to a ‘new normal’. Many practical issues need to be discussed between parents before finalising parenting arrangements in relation...

Parenting

How to get help with this parenting gig

I honestly don’t believe there is a parent alive who doesn’t struggle at times. How can we not? There are no hard and fast rules for parenting. No guide to follow, or exams to pass. Yes, parenting is a mission...

Kids and Separation

12 Tips to co-parent teenagers from a mum who’s been there

There’s lots of advice available about how to co-parent with young kids, but less for co-parenting with teenagers. Is this because, as they are older, they are expected to cope? Hopefully not because having co-parented toddlers to teens, I can...

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Understanding parental alienation after separation

Parental alienation (PA) can occur after a high conflict separation or start during a relationship. That’s what happened to me. It was subtle, like a slow-drip feed. At the time I didn’t know about parental alienation, I didn’t ever think...

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7 Perks of shared custody for single mums

Many single mothers would agree that one of the biggest challenges they face is shared custody. Not only is it logistically complex, but it can be emotionally draining too. Yet, there are several benefits to this sometimes sensitive set-up. And...

Divorce

Can you stay friends with your ex after divorce? and how?

Is it possible to stay friends with your ex after divorce? The short answer is yes, it’s possible but that’s not to say it’s easy or uncomplicated. And there are times and situations when it is absolutely not possible or...

Kids and Separation

How to make change overs when co-parenting a blinding success

What is it that enables some couples to find peace and synergy in a broken relationship, while others drown in the stress of weekly change overs and ever-changing routines. The changing family dynamic ultimately requires conscious-minded decision making to enable...

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How to broach a difficult topic with your ex

Want to stay present and composed during difficult conversations with your ex? Want your relationship with your ex to be amicable? This article compliments the Beanstalk article ‘How to communicate with an ex you can’t stand’, which provides excellent, practical...

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Co-parenting with a passive aggressive ex

Are you having a co-parenting nightmare with your passive aggressive ex? Even if you get along well with your ex-partner, co-parenting is a challenge. So, if you are trying to co-parent with someone who is passive aggressive (or displays such...