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Parenting 101: Complementary Co-parenting and why I love it

I am prepared to admit that when I became a parent, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. Then, to have to change gears and become a co-parent … well, let’s just say the verb ‘to fumble’ was...

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How to communicate with an ex you can’t stand

Does the idea of amicably communicating with your ex have you laughing hysterically or head-banging into your pillow? You are not alone. One of the biggest challenges of shared parenting is being able to communicate with an ex you can’t...

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Managing kids’ behaviour when they come home from dad’s house

Hi, I’m Ariella. I am a highly qualified paediatric nurse and the Director of Kids on Track Consultancy. I provide strategies for families around parenting, behaviour and sleep, toilet training, and everything in between. Following my work with separated families,...

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How to deal with single mum separation anxiety

When it comes to co-parenting, there’s lots of advice out there. But many forget one crucial area: How do you cope while your kids are with their father? Separation anxiety is not exclusive to children, it’s a natural and raw emotion, and...

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Help your children live happily between two homes

In this article, I talk about how, as a shared parenting couple, you can help your children live happily between two homes. Of course, in a perfect world, co-parenting wouldn’t look like our own special screening of The Shining. Instead, we’d...

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How to let go of hate and be a better co-parent

Separation is distressing at the best of times, but the added complexity of having children together can compound the challenges. This is not to say that separation without children isn’t equally emotional or stressful, but having children adds another dimension....

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Co-parenting at Christmas: How to make it work

Christmas can be the most wonderful time of the year, or the hardest. And for many, it comes down to family. For this reason, co-parenting at Christmas can be the most fiddly festivities of all. This might be your first...

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Why parallel parenting could be the answer to shared parenting

Navigating the intricate dance of shared care arrangements with an ex-partner can feel like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. Been there, dropped that! But guess what? I stumbled upon a game-changer: parallel parenting. If you’ve been desperately trying...

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Positive parenting programs for separated couples in Australia 2023

In this article we explore positive parenting programs tailored specifically for separated couples in Australia. Navigating co-parenting after a separation can be a complex and emotional journey. Finding the right support is crucial for the well-being of both parents and...