I just don’t know what to do. For the past 3 years I have been on/off with my little boys dad. I genuinely think I’m in love with him but he is so distant with me it’s unreal. Doesn’t show me any affection whatsoever I find myself pining for his attention that he doesn’t give me. Comes over twice a week spends most of the time ignoring me, says he sees me as his gf but I want so much more. I’ve tried calling it off altogether but I can’t cope with the crippling loneliness of being on my own. Someone help me I need advice
Could I suggest building your social network so that you are not dependent on romantic love for social stimulation? Dance/Yoga classes, meeting other mums with similar aged kids, reaching out to old friends for a chat on the phone to catch up… some ideas for you.
If he’s your child’s father and “visits” you he’s def not committed to you in any way only wanting Mayb conveniences of sex occasionally and seeing his child. You cannot be in love with someone who’s clearly not in love with you. You need to end this set up and allow him see his child as a single father alone and set some higher standards for yourself your child father is using you as a non committed booty call