I think there may be genuine guys on it BUT they are hard to find. And you need to be willing to put the time and effort in to online dating. And I guess it comes down to what you are looking for yourself! I guess meeting someone who is only interested in something casual is fine if that’s what you are looking for as well.
It’s a minefield, that’s for sure. I met my ex husband online & he ended up being a full blown narcissistic sociopath. So now I steer clear of the ones who appear too good to be true.
Since separating I’ve dated a few from dating sites. however they all appear to be the same, even if they seem to be genuinely lovely at the start. I’m currently seeing a guy who I’ve been speaking to for months, met a few times, haven’t slept with yet because I’m so worried that once we do, he’ll turn out like the rest. Good luck x