Soooo my husband left the home two months ago and is living with the woman he cheated with. I don’t want him back, but I’m hoping that one day soon he wakes up and realizes what a horrible mistake he made. We were together for 15 years (since I was 17) and married for 5 of those years and we have a 20 month old son. I just can’t wrap my head around what went wrong. We had just bought a house last year… I’m completely devastated and just wonder when this pain goes away. I really want to talk to someone (like a male) just to get my mind off him. I’m just afraid of being alone.
Try not to worry about being alone, as you won’t be. You’ll have friends and family. Instead focus on the day-to-day stuff. Slowly you will heal but things like this take a long time so be kind to yourself and try not to rush the process. Feel for you, it’s just so horrid.
This is shitty and you might never fully understand what went wrong as it was his actions and not yours. It is sometimes very hard to understand what another person is going through, even someone you feel close too. Instead focus on moving forward with your new life. And get some support whether it’s friends, family or a cousellor you can chat things through with. It’s going to be hard but you will be a strong as you need to be as you are a mother. That is what we do.