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    • #52177 Reply
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      hi, my ex partner and I have recently seperated after 10 years after i found out he and my best friend had an affair. I moved out 32 weeks pregnant and he moved in with bestie. Our bub is now 4 weeks old and im busy with consent orders. Ex partner really wants to be involved in bubs live and are saying i am keeping her away from him with visitation times and days. I just want bub to have structure and routine. How many days and times do you think is suitable for ex partner to see bub?

    • #52190 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      It’s super tricky with newborns as routine is so important however dad will need to have a look in.

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      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      Can you lawyer advise you?

    • #52249 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      It completely depends on the situation. Usually a court would rule 50:50 if possible but because of the age it might not be possible. Like last poster said. This is something for a lawyer to advise you on.

    • #52311 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      Interest article here which may help you:

      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3562740/

    • #52547 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
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      I spoke to the lawyer who was recommended on this page when I was looking to leave my partner when my child was 1. She said because of his age, my partner would not be getting 50/50..that doesnt happen til they are a bit older it seemed

      She did say though, it’s hard to backtrack.. as an example, if you let him take the child 3 days a week, if you went to court it would be hard to argue he could only have the child one day a week. Try reach out to legal aid to get some free advice. Good luck x

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