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      AvatarCait
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      Hi all

      My ex took our daughter from her daycare on Friday morning after he sent an email saying he was in town and would be taking her. We have no parenting orders in place however we have been discussing via email re mediation. He drove her 1200kms away from where we have lived for the past 3 years. I have lodged a recovery order late Friday night but haven’t heard anything. The police where I live put a job in for a welfare check at a known residence however my ex presented her at a police station where his new girlfriend lives. He stated to police
      She would call me Saturday night which she did but he cut the call off at 2 mins and tonight however I heard nothing and told them she would be returned to her daycare in my home town tomorrow. However the email he sent me said she would contact me every 2nd day at 6:30 off a phone number that’s off or as she wants to and that he would return her on the 9th.
      I’m terrified I’m never going to see my little girl again. Has anyone been through similar or know where I can go from here ?
      Thanks

    • #21359 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      You will get her back as planned to tomorrow I am sure and desperately hope so. When you do you need to get parenting orders in place to prevent anything similar happening again. It sounds like he trying to disrupt and scare you. Keep the police updated and stay on the case so they take it seriously. Record everything for when you go to court and arrange your orders.

    • #21384 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      Did you get your daughter back?

    • #21385 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
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      No I haven’t got my daughter back waiting for lawyer to call

    • #21389 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
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      So sorry to hear about what happen hun best thing to do is to get a parenting order in place consult for legal advice so he can’t do this again.

    • #21402 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
      Guest

      No recovery order was granted as he presented our daughter to a police station for a welfare check and there’s no harm
      I don’t know where to go from here
      We have a family court date set just before Christmas

    • #21417 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      Can you get emergency legal aid??

    • #21425 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
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      I can only imagine what you’re going through. Think you’re going to need to call legal aid in the morning for emergency help, or your existing lawyer if you have one.

      I’ve always found asking to be transferred to the 1800 Respect specialist counsellors are helpful when I’m extremely stressed about parenting conflict. They might have some suggestions on what to do next.

    • #21482 Reply
      AvatarGretel Digo
      Keymaster

      I second the above poster. Call your lawyer and arrange a meeting asap if you really need to.

    • #21486 Reply
      Lucy GoodLucy Good
      Keymaster

      Praying you get this sorted soon.

    • #21502 Reply
      AvatarAnonymous
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      Have you any news? Been thinking about you for a few days, and hope there’s some positive progress.

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