I feel so lonely, lost connection with everyone since I separated from my former partner as it was my decision. Not in touch with families and relatives. I lost friends which I had before but happy not seeing them anymore as they are judgemental and keep talking that children will be effected from separation so better to be together. Sometimes I feel so lonely on my own and my children also says why we don’t have people visiting us anymore. I want to find single mum groups in the area but I don’t know how to find the groups and get connected. I love listening to experiences of people who have been in similar path, sometimes Iam very anxious of my future, will I be able to find any partner? If I will be on my own will I ever be able to buy house on my own as this is one of my dream. I want to study further and take my career forward but I don’t know if I would be able to mange to study with two kids on my own. I don’t like to do online courses though its a good option. Any thoughts and suggestions welcome.
Try and find some FB groups in your area and you can arrange to meet through them. Also, give it time. My friendship changed entirely after separation but it took a while. And I have never been happier. It will get better.
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